Ep. 55: Self One and Self Two

In the book The Inner Game of Tennis, we learn about the concept of Self One and Self Two. Anyone who has tried to get themselves to do anything can relate to this concept. There is a Self One who instructs and a Self Two who carries out the action. The relationship between these two matters a lot. This is especially because Self Two is actually VERY capable of learning and applying things very quickly so long as Self One doesn’t slow it down by micromanaging it. Which Self One really likes to do.

Listen in to find out why this is important and how to improve the relationship with yourself so you can progress MUCH faster.

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