Stop sacrificing yourself

and become the WHOLE woman you

were meant to be!

Stop sacrificing yourself

and become the WHOLE

woman you were meant

to be!

If momma ain’t happy,

ain’t nobody happy.

I'm amber haider

I’m a wife, mother to 4 energetic kids, a fitness enthusiast, and Certified Life Coach.

As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I decided early on that being a wife and mother would be a priority for me. Only, once I got there, I couldn’t figure out why I felt unhappy, unfulfilled, stressed-out and purpose-less.

I'm amber haider

I’m a wife, mother to 4 energetic kids, a fitness enthusiast, and Certified Life Coach.

As a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, I decided early on that being a wife and mother would be a priority for me. Only, once I got there, I couldn’t figure out why I felt unhappy, unfulfilled, stressed-out and purpose-less.

As a mom, it was natural for me to put the needs of my family before my own. It was a badge of honor, of sorts. The more I sacrifice, the better mom I am, right? Wrong. So wrong! Ignoring myself and my needs cost me too much. And it cost everyone else in my family because my resentment caused me to show up as a stressed out, irritated mom!

If momma ain’t happy,

ain’t nobody happy.

I’m Amber, a wife and a mother of 4 crazy kids, and I freaking love life. As a stay-at-home-mom, it wasn’t always this way for me. But I found the way back to myself. Now I can’t wait to show you how to feel like a Mom on Fire!

As a mom, it was natural for me to put the needs of my family before my own. It was a badge of honor, of sorts. The more I sacrifice, the better mom I am, right? Wrong. So wrong! Ignoring myself and my needs cost me too much. And it cost everyone else in my family because my resentment caused me to show up as a stressed out, irritated mom!

I've got your back

It took me 10 years of experience and learning, trial and error, before I finally landed in a place where I freaking loved my life again. The big key to that change? Realizing that getting what I needed didn’t take anything away from my family! Could it be that I could stand up for myself and what I wanted, and the world wouldn’t come crashing down?!

It won’t take you 10 years to feel like a Mom on Fire because I’ve got the short-cuts and I’ve got your back!

I’ll help you stop the depleting

people-pleasing cycle for good!

A few years ago, I was promoted to lead a group of fitness instructors. When a fellow colleague found out I got the job, he exclaimed,

“YES!!”

Confused, I asked why he was so excited.

“Because you don’t take any $#%+!”

I laughed, but then I thought about it more. Having someone who can flex their assertiveness muscles with compassion is exactly why my clients come to me. It’s what they want to become. They want to feel confident in what they want for themselves without feeling guilty or selfish. When they finally let go of their fear of confrontation and disappointing others, they start to listen to their own voice again.. Their whole world starts to open up for the better, and everyone in their family benefits!

This is why I love working with my sweet, generous moms with people-pleasing tendencies. Seeing a mother transform from stressed, depleted, resentful and trapped to confident, powerful, happy and thriving, is INSPIRING! Women and mothers are so POWERFUL in their own sphere, their communities and the world! Sometimes they just don’t know it yet!

There’s the discomfort of change and there’s the discomfort of staying where you are. If there is discomfort either way, let’s choose the one that gets you what you want.

When you are working in my Mom on Fire program, you will learn how to connect with your inner self, and finally figure out what you want for YOU. Not gonna lie, it can get uncomfortable in the beginning because you are accustomed to silencing yourself.

You will start prioritizing when to say yes because you want to, and when to say no, guilt-free. You will live more sincerely, and stop pretending so much.

You will feel yourself grow in strength and confidence as you overcome the fear of confrontation and reactions of others. After just a few weeks, life will feel lighter. As you begin to see where you have given your power away, you will gain the ability to take it back, once and for all.

And not to worry, because all along the way, your family comes with you. There is no mom’s needs versus everyone else’s. It’s not either or. They may sense a change in the dynamics, but a happier mom always influences her family for the better.

You’re gonna love who you

BECOME in this process!

“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle, and gorgeous at the end.” –Robin Sharma

Nothing that is worth anything is ever easy, but you will emerge from this program feeling like a Mom on Fire! You will feel like yourself again! You will be able to set boundaries with others, no longer being controlled by their emotions and expectations of you.

Caring less about what others think of you will leave you feeling liberated, and excited to pursue what you want in life just for YOU. You will finally feel good about saying yes to all the things in life that are important to you, and even feel good about saying no.

All of this, without sacrificing your family that you love so much. You will be a mom on FIRE, and your growing enthusiasm will enhance all areas of your life and family!

What do you have

to lose?

Having a coach is much like having a personal trainer, but for your life. You can make a lot of progress on your own, but with the help of focused support, you can exponentially increase your results!

If you don’t have a coach, let’s chat! I’d love to help you with whatever you’re facing. The next step is to schedule a FREE mini session via Zoom Video Conferencing. Go to my Work with Me page for more information, or go ahead click below to get on my calendar!