Ep. 73. Why Are We Doing This Again?

It’s hard to put a lot of time, effort and money towards our dancing and then have a competition yield poor results and feel like an utter failure. It’s not uncommon to ask the question, “Why are we doing this again?”

When this comes up with clients, I like to draw a pie chart and fill it up with all the reasons we are dancing and/or competing. If results is the biggest piece that takes up most of the chart, and there is but a small sliver for everything else, you will perpetually be jerked around by your results.

Instead, the goal is to fill the pie chart with all the reasons we do this so that the results is just one small sliver of the story. I walk you through some of the reasons I do this that have nothing to do with results to get you started.

After you listen, pop over to our Joyful Ballroom Facebook Group to share what fills your pie chart.

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I'm Amber haider

As an amateur ballroom dancer myself, I understand the issues that come up for dancers, the pressures of competing, and the desire to make the most of my ballroom experience. I also really like to WIN! As a Life Coach by vocation, I have the tools to cut through the mental garbage that is holding you back so that you can maximize your potential. Using my own tools, I have been able to skyrocket my own skills, learn faster, lessen the pressure, win more and have tons more fun. I can show you the way. Here’s a couple tools to get you started:

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